why he wants to leave? because he can, he could and he want to. He want to get out from that relationship because he doesn't love you anymore. he don't need you and he don't want you in his life.
seriously, bila lelaki benar-benar sudah nekad untuk pergi, there's nothing you can do. Even you try to talk to him to think it through about it or even you cried as hard as you want. You won't get him back. That's the fact, that he choose to leave.
Jangan tertipu will all the reasons that he come up with just to justify his action. Trust me, all the reasons hanya to make them feel less guilty and want to end it quickly. I know because I've live through it.
As long as you already do your best to keep the relationship and be the best that you can for him. Then it's his losses for leaving you.
Once, i love a man that I gave more than him yet it don't works out between us. For he, choose to leave because we're not compatible with each other. I realize at that day, that what ever i did for him, will never be good enough so i leave and walk away even he try to get me back. I'm sorry, I'm tired to be the one who always give.
Then i love a man who i gave less than him and yet it ends the same one as the last one, break up. For he choose to love another woman behind my back. They will never satisfy with us. They want more and more and more until we don't have anything to give anymore. Bila kita tak berikan apa yang mereka mahukan, they leave us and move to another target.
Love is beautiful when you love someone with the right reason, right time and right knowledge. For me, loving someone means to understand them. Kerana manusia melakukan kesilapan dan kita bukan Tuhan. tapi kemaafan juga harus diberikan dengan waspada dan peluang kedua hanya diberikan pada orang yang layak medapatkan.
Bila lelaki benar-benar mencintai kita, takkan ada satu pun benda yang kita boleh buat untuk membuatkan mereka pergi tetapi bila mereka benar-benar mahu pergi, takkan ada satu benda yang kita boleh buat untuk membuatkan mereka berubah fikiran.
carilah lelaki yang menerima kamu seadanya dan bukan mencari seorang yang sempurna kerana kita manusia tidak sempurna, belajarlah mencintai setelah terluka dan sentiasa ingat, hargai masa yang ada ketika bersama dengan orang yang tersayang cause we might not get tomorrow.
he will regret it when he realize how much he has lost when he choose to leave and he will miss you and maybe he will text you or even try to come back to you. Just realize that, how good is your life without him, how strong you are after all that, and remember that you deserve someone who love and accept you as you are.
nota kecil: sorry, entry agak emo dan sedih tapi niat hanya untuk membantu mereka yang melalui perpisahan yang teruk. till then, take care. :)
